It
Can Happen to you too
Leading Chicano writer Luis
Rodriguez, a former gang banger and former youth organizer analyzed violence in
which it can bring to many of our attention. In his book Hearts and Hands he
writes about violence to better inform people on the bigger problem that
society is facing, he comes up with various solutions to this problem and he
makes very good suggestions on how society can handle problems such as
violence. To many of us violence seems to only happen in movies since we hardly
experience it but violence has become a big problem in some community and it
needs to come to an end. Many assumptions have been made towards youth and
violence; people assume that the youth just doesn’t care and that they have no
future going for them so they take them as a lost cause and lack to give them
any acknowledgement. People will stereotype many youth and affiliate them as
violent people. After Reading Rodriguez analysis of violence and his critique
of our current solutions to the dilemma that our communities suffer do to
violence changes my point of view of the problem. Because the youth are so
vulnerable to violence, they are the ones that are the most affected because
they are going through a stage of development, they need better communication
with adult figures, they need guidance from experienced people, many youth go
out to look for the support they don’t receive at home out on the streets and
that can lead them to turn to gangs, some communities fail to pay any attention
to this situation and fail to support the youth, people should be more aware of
violence in every community due to the youth is the next generation and they
are being put away in jail cells and not given a chance to succeed in life.
People should come to a realization that what they are doing know is only
affecting the youth more.
While
youth is in the process of figuring out who they are; by either making their
own decisions or experimenting, Adults need to diagnose the difficult stage
that the youth is going through, they are in the process of learning and
adapting to society. Adults should provide guidance and have meaningful talks
with the youth that can help make better choices. In Rodriguez analysis he
discusses about Francisco’s situation whom was very smart but seemed to have
trouble staying in school. Francisco was raised by a single mother because his
father walked out of his life when he was young; he lacked strong communication
with adults he looked up too. Since Francisco was very young he was hurt and
often felt like he was alone, so he turned to gangs for comfort. Francisco was
associating with the wrong people and he was being categorizes and often he was
being put down and set up for failure by his own community. Rodriguez states
“…although he had many things going for him. What he needed to get through this
situation was a unified collective of caring adults who would hang in there
with him… couldn’t be done when those most needed to help him do so had removed
themselves from an integral and trustworthy place in the boy’s life” (73).
Francisco was thrown out of school and no school wanted him, he dropped out.
Francisco was out in the streets and later began to hang out with the wrong
people, he had nothing else to. Since his community through him out of the only
place where he can become someone he lost all hope and found comfort out in the
streets. When youth are at their weakest and they have experimented things that
resulted with negative consequences, like being involved with gangs, all they
need is someone who can support them to do better choices instead of being
punished. When the youth keeps being punished harshly and when they are being
isolated form their community they have nowhere to turn to but to the people
that will be there for them. Many can argue that the youth should know better
because “they are old enough to know better” but because they are in such a
vulnerable stage in life, where they feel like everything is good and sounds
good at the moment, what they need is an adult that will be there to support
them and provide guidance for them that can possibly guide the youth down the
right path.
Because many adults find it easier to just punish the
youth for their mistakes, the youth will find it hard to reflect on their own
mistakes. Instead of helping the youth the community is making it harder for
them to do better in life. They create laws that prevent them from rehabilitating,
giving the youth harsh consequences that cause them to be more angry, this
shouldn’t be the way that the community and the society as a whole to solve
problem. Giving the youth a little more for their self-control will allow them
to learn from their mistakes and help them do better in the future. Annette
Fuentes an author writes about the “Zero Tolerance Law” that is aimed to clean
up the schools, states in her article Arresting
Development, Zero tolerance and the
criminalization of children, “There are a lot of children arrested for
disorderly conduct, which has a very subjective definition. Whoever is standing
there gets to define it,” (20). Because the authority has so much power over
what is “disorderly conduct” they are creating more criminals rather than
preventing them. Since many of these
students were getting arrested for things such as refusing to sit down made
them infuriated that cause them to rebel more.
The adults in these youth’s lives are not providing the
right guidance that is necessary for the youth to succeed. The adults are not
guiding the youth down the right instead they are putting them aside and
instead of communicating with them and trying to let them know what is right
over wrong they are giving up and just give them harsh consequences to will
eventually lead to give them criminal records. Handing the youth to law
enforcement is just showing the youth that the adults in their lives have given
up on them and don’t think that they believe in them. Rodriguez claims that
since we live in such a rapid life style, the adults forget about what
surrounds them ,” They are not vested to do anything real lasting because they
are more concerned about their career, their financial standing, or their own
neck,” (49). The fact that the adults are not helping the youth in life, they
are worrying about themselves makes them selfish, they are supposedly here to guide
their youth and help them down the right path, but since they are not being
there for the youth can affect the youth and make them feel like they are alone
in life and can turn them to violence because the people who is supposedly made
to be there for them is not there.
Society is doing nothing to give a hand to
the youth that is the next generation for the future, because they are being
put down and not given a chance to do things right they are set up for failure.
Many of the youth stop trying because they feel that they aren’t good enough,
law enforcement will stereotype them as bad people and accuse them of doing
wrong. “The public debate is now limited largely to those who demonize youth, who want to put them away to use the
repression to curb their natural instinct to re-create the world,” (Rodriguez
45). The fact that people are out to put the youth away to “clean up the streets
and schools” is very over rated. The youth need chances to learn from their
mistakes they have a long life ahead of them to change their ways to become
something useful in life. Many youth have dreams and inspirations to do
something big with their lives, buts since they are not being inspired to do
something in life they will not live up to their dreams. The youth could have
been very successful later in life but because they are getting criminal
records at such a young age they start to believe that they have nothing good
set up for them in the future.
Therefore, the youth need more guidance from the adult
figures in their lives to support them guide them down a right path that will
allow them to reevaluate their mistakes and learn from them. Since society is
failing to help out the youth many of which have been affected by the
consequences that they are paying for find it useless to try in life. If the
community wants to see change with the youth they need to have better
communication with the youth and allow them some power over their lives and not
give them harsh consequences. Many adults fail to support the youth, the youth
are at a point where they need guidance and love that they are not receiving at
home. The adults need to address the problem in order to fix the situation that
can affect them later in life.
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